People can change I guess

My ex who I dated for 2 years , I cheated on him with 12 different guys within the 2 years ... horrible yeah I know.

My current man I’ve been with for 3 years and have never had the urge to cheat once.

Why is this you think? Why do people serial cheat when with one person and stay faithful to the next? Am I a sex addict ? Idk? Thoughts ?

Update : thanks for the replies ladies even the salty ones hahaha😂😂!! I was a hoe I guess 💁🏻‍♀️

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El

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because you’re a scumbag

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Elizabeth • Feb 1, 2020
it doesn’t require having been cheated on to know that someone who cheats with 12 different people is a scumbag

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👀 • Feb 1, 2020
Lollll someone has been cheated on apparently 😂 bitter Becky

Sh

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I think you haven’t done it because you ain’t bored of him yet, clearly can’t keep it in your pants🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️ I hope your new man knows what he’s got himself in for

Sh

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People change. Ur maybe happy n satisfied. Ur out of ur hoe phase maybe. My theories 🤷🏽‍♀️

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It’s okay girl I cheated with 10 guys before 😂

As

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You shouldn’t have been dating your ex. Instead of cheating you should have broke up.

Jo

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I think when you cheat that might mean you don't actually love yourself or moce the person like you think you do. I think when people are unhappy with their relationship and know deep down thats not the one, that maybe thats why you cheated. You are probably happy, in a healthy relationship, and love yourself and the one your with which is why maybe you haven't cheated on him.

Mo

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There's something rooted deeper in serial cheaters.. Something will trigger you eventually. You may need to seek counseling, ive been there before

To

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I've cheated on one got when I was in high school. I cheated with 4 people in 2 years. And it was because I was trapped. He was controlling, mentally/emotionally abusive and sexually abusive. He was also a cheater. And when I tried to leave he's threaten to kill himself and he legitimately carved my entire name into his arm so I believed him. I never cheated with just anyone,not was with someone I wanted to be with but couldn't be because of him. That ended 10 years ago and I've never cheated since, haven't even thought about it. Idk if I'd be considered a serial cheater or not, but for me the difference is I've never been trapped in a relationship since hi..

To

To • Feb 2, 2020
I'm not trying to justify anything. I was simply answering the question asked. It was a long time ago and I was incredibly young and he was older. I didn't see anyway out and I didn't care about hurting him. I've grown since then and have never even considered cheating in anyone else. Do i regret it? Sure. But am I beating myself up about it? No. Am I a bad person? No. I was young and stupid and I've learned from my mistakes. Your opinion of me doesn't matter 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Sabina • Feb 1, 2020
makes you just as toxic🤷🏽‍♀️

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👀 • Feb 1, 2020
If your abusive , you deserve to get cheated on.