Has anyone conceived naturally after 17+ months of trying ?

I’ve been tested and so has he and all is well so I’m in the unexplained category 😞

I recently tried two months of monitored Clomid with trigger shot.. and had two follicles the first time and 3 the second and no luck..

Last month we went without Clomid bc mentally I just couldn’t handle it.. and we barely tried I didn’t do OPKs I didn’t test early.. I figured maybe it’ll happen bc we aren’t focused on it. Did the do a couple days before ovulation and day of. Nothing forced.

Anyways starting to think it isn’t going to happen for us.. well I can’t say starting.. I genuinely do not think I’ll get pregnant.

I know I still have IUI and IVF to try but right now we just are not wanting to do that.. for now..