My fiance and I have been struggling a little financially because he just lost his job and is struggling to get a new one. He just got hired somewhere and they're taking forever to let him know when his first day is, so my money is all the money we have right now.

His entire family lives all around the city, and they all expect us to drop everything and drive out to their houses to see them.

I try to explain that we dont have enough money to go anywhere except work right now and they try to guilt trip him because they don't see him enough.

I'm starting to get pissed off because they know our financial situation and they all have cars and aren't struggling like we are but they never want to make any effort to see us, they expect us to make the effort every single time. And then if we cant, instead of them making the trip to us they just bitch and moan that they never see us.

I dont know what to do for them. But I cant afford to just not have gas for work because if I cant work we will be completely screwed. We have a baby on the way. I cannot afford to drive to his grandma and mom and sisters houses all the friggin time.