It’s been three months since I broke up with my boyfriend or 4 years. The first month was horrible, but after 3 months I can finally say I’m okay. I don’t avoid relationship stuff, I deleted all his pics and got rid of anything that reminded me of him, and I’ve even started talking to this adorable Dutch guy (though I don’t see us as being anything more than friends right now) and sexting another.

We broke up because I was the only one putting in effort and I had started to lose feelings a month before breaking up with him. I kept trying with him and I really wanted to make it work, but it was one-sided.

I feel kinda guilty... but my ex didn’t even bother breaking up with me, he just left.