Hi ladies it's been almost a year since I posted here. Sorry it may be long. Well update on my life. I left you guys at my husband cheating getting her as well as me pregnant. I didn't know what to do. We had been together at the time 20 years. I was battling should I leave or stay. I left to Florida. Well my husband did follow and I was going to try to make it work. Believe me it was hard. The other woman just didn't understand boundaries (as she is young and immature). My pregnancy was trying. I could barely eat. I had to find was to make sure our baby was healthy. Other woman had here daughter in March but my husband missed his flight and didn't make it but decided it would be a bad decision at the moment. April comes around and my little guy makes his appearance. Well that same day I had to be rushed into surgery after having him because my thyroid became over active and closed my throat. They removed 90% of my thyroid. My husband took care of me and I decided I could no longer deal with the other woman and him not telling her about boundaries. I left. My husband did a court order for a DNA test. Well my husband calls me and asked to talk because he wanted to make things right and wanted to tell me something. I agreed. This was around Christmas. My husband presented me DNA papers as a gift (which I didn't approve of); but I did like the results. Excuse as the father!!!! We are now trying to work on our marriage. We see a therapist and now have date night.