Vbac advice???

Amber • Ttc final baby #3!!!

So two years ago I had a c section with my daughter. I'm currently 4 weeks pregnant with our second child. I've always been told(by family) that if u have a c section with first kid then your most likely have to as well with the next babies??? Is this true im scared to have another c section cause my last one was so painful during the healing process and it opened back up and got infected 😣 I want to try a vbac this time around though. Just wanna here some opinions and some of yall experiences 😁😁