Help please!!!!!

So we have been trying and obviously it hasnt worked. We did miscarry in Sept 19. Met with a reproductive endocrinologist yesterday IVF and IUI are our choices to have children. Where did you all start? Best sites for good accurate reliable information. Suggestions.....anything I mean the money side of it I know and was expecting but wow. Sooooo much info in very little time......thanks for anything you can give me. Just not ready to give up hope.... we both are leaning towards IVF.