Can a guy take himself off of child support? It's been two years and my babys father has been threatening me for awhile to take him off because he doesnt help me with him. He will get him Wednesday nights at 7 and drop him off back at 5 and get him every other weekend sometimes. But before I put him on I tried to get him to help financially with daycare and stuff I dont recieve government assistanc and never did. I was pretty much lonely during my pregnancy financially. Now hes threaten me to try to get 50/50 so he doesnt have to pay. He is in a new relationship also so idk if hes just doing it to be petty or cause of her.