My sister wants to plan a pregnancy announcement/gender reveal.However everyone I want to know that I'm pregnant is aware. I love my family but I'm not really close with alot of them. I've gone years without talking to or seeing some of them nd we are all right here in the same city. I dont care to have a huge baby shower either which my mom is dead set on planning, because I really dont deal with anyone if it was up to my my baby shower would have maybe 10 guest at the most nd that's including my husband's family.. I appreciate they want to plan these events nd make them memorable but I'm more concerned with my financial situation. If you want to spend money doing something for me help me with some of these bills. I'm high risk nd haven't been able to work like I'm use to nd my husband injured his ankle nd has been out of work for a few weeks. Things are piling up fast nd I've been very open with them about my situation nd they claim I shouldn't worry nd they will help anyway they can but I'm not getting any assistance yet they call me with these big ideas for these events that I dont really care to have at this point.

Not that I dont want or wouldnt appreciate a planned baby shower or whatever it's just frustrating to think about right now when it's so much other shit I need help with. I've never been down this bad nd my pregnancy was a complete surprise.my husband injuring himself wasnt in the plan,he has been making everything happen since I've been put on work restrictions now things are going down hill.I cant stress about anything,yet I have everything to stress about. I'm not trying to be an ass but parties are not a priority right now. Nd I'm aggravated that's all everyone seems to think about right now. I'm happy they are excited about my baby coming but I'm truly struggling 😔