My boyfriend and I have been dating over 6 years now and our sex life is me-owwww 😻😽 Sometimes it may not be as often as we would like between both our work schedules but we love trying new things and are very communicative in that aspect. I've never been with anyone like him before, I've never been treated or loved better and could not ask for more.

I am the only person he has ever been with in his life he never did anything more than kiss a girl before, he wasn't waiting for marriage but he had an early start to his career and more focus to be successful than anyone I've ever known. I know I'm hella lucky in that aspect it's crazy and I plan on marrying this man and having his babies!! Haha

Now he does not masturbate, like literally ever! I do find that a bit crazy because most guys do and in the time we've been together he told me he did maybe 5 times while looking at photos of me or a video we made 🤐😝 I love to masturbate hands down its quick and easy but nothing compares to the orgasms from him during sex, he refuses to stop without giving me atleast one.

His reasoning for not wanting to please himself is he feels a little weird and would more defintely rather have me. If I'm on the verge of passing out or not feeling well I feel bad leaving him hanging and sometimes give him a hand or blowjob. But on occasion he will have blueballs and his lower abdomen will just start to hurt.

How to make him feel not weird about masturbating by himself?

(I have masturbated in front of him during sex and then continued in my own attempt 😂🤷🏼‍♀️)

Thank you ladies