I hate my mum in law 😞
It’s a bit of a rant... I do apologise:,)..... I have a little girl with my partner but when I got pregnant the second time his mum was horrible, told my partner he could have got a sexually transmitted infection and told me I should get an abortion and then said that once I had the abortion my partner should go and stay with her for a few days and made it clear she meant on his own. We had the abortion, and she ended up telling my partners ex (who has children with him) it absolutely wasn’t her place to tell ANYONE let alone her!! She does it in a way that people wouldn’t normally see as nasty. She has ways of wording things and if you tell her she’s upset you then she makes you feel like it’s in your head and plays victim. Sometimes starts crying even though she’s the one who’s upsetting people. We confronted her about telling his ex and she just cried and gets people to feel sorry for her. I am pregnant again years later I’m 7+3 and the other day we decided to tell her. I was so scared and it was really causing me a lot of stress so we sent her a text and told her and said we would talk to her on the phone about it in a few days, to try and make sure she didn’t say something she regretted. She absolutely did!!!! She accused me of tricking him into getting pregnant and was just so nasty, I finally stuck up for myself and said that she was being really nasty and that was a horrible accusation, my partner had my back and told her to pack it in but then she suddenly changed and acted like I had made up that she said it, saying it was in my head even though my partner heard it too. She said she doesn’t want to fall out but to be honest I’ve gone from being able to tolerate her to wishing I never had to see her again. I hate her. She makes me so unhappy and I suffer with anxiety and depression among other things as it is. We are meant to be talking to her on Monday but I really can’t bare it. It causes so much stress and it’s not a great time for that.. she could hurt my baby :( she’s my fiancé’s mum.... I can’t shut her out but I can’t do this pregnancy safely with her causing me this much upset. I don’t know what to do..... if anyone manages to get though this and stick it out till the end then thank you so much 💕
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