Sex advice

Okay so I’m 23 years old, I’ve had plenty of sex but I honestly just don’t know if I’ve ever orgasmed before. I squirt every time we have sex. How do I get my self there (clitoral or vaginal) with my partner? We’re getting a hotel for Valentine’s Day so I really want to have my first one there. Help pleaseeeee!!! How do I get one/ what is it!!