Okay so tell me if I’m overreacting here at all. So my husband just began hanging out with his distant cousin about a couple months ago. He said they were close growing up, but once she got married her abusive husband made her stop talking to him because he didn’t trust their relationship. So anyway, she’s divorced now & they’ve reconnected.

They’ve been out drinking together a few times since then, and I’ve only tagged along once. Last night, they went out without me because we already have a one year old & I’m pregnant now anyway so I can’t drink. I woke up naturally at 4:30am thinking he’d be home any minute so I stayed up. 6am rolls around & he’s still not home. At this point I’m worried, & his phone is either dead or off so none of my calls are going through.

6:30am the sun starts to rise so I decide to ease my mind I’ll drive by his cousins place & see if he’s there. Well I did, & his car is definitely parked outside... Now I’m pissed at this point because if he’s inside a house with a dead phone he could’ve easily charged it & called me to warn me he wouldn’t be home.

I don’t want to think the worst but I just don’t trust it. It’s so unlike him to not return after drinking. When we go out he usually paces himself because he refuses to drive drunk. Now it’s almost 8am & he’s still not back, phone still going to voicemail. Wtf. Am I overreacting here???