What do y’all think?
So my husband has done this to me a couple times but has never taken it this far. It leads me to believe that he really has slept with someone else multiple times. So we have a fairly open relationship. But over the past few days, he’s told me that he slept with someone he works with and that she’s possibly pregnant. He’s shown me naked pics of her. I saw the message about her taking a pregnancy test. They spent from 10 am yesterday until 7 pm yesterday together. Said it was at a car dealership but the longest I’ve ever been in a dealership was 4 hours maximum. They got food after which is no big deal. But I also needed him because I almost didn’t make it home. He had been messaging me just fine but had switched to messenger which made it odd to me because he never does that. He had woken me up at 9 yesterday morning to show me that he shaved everything which is unusual because he never does that. Took an erection pill last night before leaving for an after party. Told me he was going to get fucked up and stay the night. When I got the point where I was mad about the fact that I almost didn’t make it home, he told me it was all a joke to see my reaction. Truth be told, I’m not mad about him screwing someone else, I’m mad that I saw the possibility of her being pregnant, knowing that I can’t give him that because I’m fixed. But he claims it’s all a joke and that he would never sleep with someone else.
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I am leaving. It’s safer than he doesn’t know for the sake of our children until We’re out of the house. There’s a whole lot not adding up. Gym has taken membership dues out twice in two weeks. He’s spending a lot more time with his buddy than he ever has. He’s FaceTimed this chick while I was sitting right there. He told his buddy that he told me and his buddy’s exact response was “oh shit”. A lot of secrets have come to light recently and it’s all pointing down this road.
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