im naturally selfish and love attention but some of my fb friends are annoying as hell and self righteous about everything, so im honestly considering just telling the people who matter and announcing at birth, rather than 15 or 20 weeks.

i honestly think it would be hilarious, since i normally post so often about whatever im thinking or feeling. the shock would be funny, and i could avoid people coming at me to spook me with stories or unsolicited advice.

maybe im petty but itd be a nice laugh tbh.