Between my boyfriend and I? Today he and I hung out with my kids for the first time today. My boys are always a lot and my oldest struggles with ADHD. Together my boys are rambunctious. He said he had fun but that it was a lot so, I’m wondering if I should just end things or not. I told him to imagine life like this every day for 7 days every other week and see if it’s something he’s willing to do. He said he can handle it but when I hear “today was a lot for me” I’m discouraged.