For my anniversary I want to surprise my man with doing anal for the first time. He’s been wanting to but after he accidentally slipped his dick into the wrong hole, he’s been afraid to hurt me again.

This is new to me and I have NO idea where to start. What kind of lube should I buy? Where can I buy it (Walmart, Walgreens, online). And is there anything we can try to loosen it or at least to stretch it out before he puts it in?

Anything that you guys tried that worked? I just don’t want it to be painful and ruin our anniversary by me crying or being in pain.