Is it cheating?

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Would you consider it cheating if you caught your husband/partner masturbating to the Facebook profiles of other women, some of whom are your friends? No contact with them, just using their pictures for sexual satisfaction?

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Yeah and that’s pretty disrespectful to masturbate to your partner’s associates 😬

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Absolutely. I would find it highly disrespectful. I believe partners should be 100% loyal, if you any sexual urge then tell your partner don't seek to achieve the pleasure elsewhere.

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For me, porn isn't cheating
But if you KNOW someone then yes..

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I wouldn’t consider it cheating exactly but it wouldn’t be appropriate or acceptable

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My significant other and I dont watch porn but I rather him watch porn than do this. This is definitely cheating.

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Yes this is definitely crossing the boundary of what is acceptable. My husband used to watch porn when we were still dating and not living together. I didnt mind and occasionally watched it with him.  Since weve lived together we have a very healthy sex life and he says he doesnt feel the need to masturbate at all. I would never be ok with him masturbating over people either of us know or anyone he can actually contact through social media though, that is really not ok and I would definitely class it as cheating. Apart from anything else it is just massively disrespectful towards you and must place you in a very uncomfortable position having to refuse to see that friend as I certainly wouldn't want to invite them around him!!

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It’s very different when you know the person.

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It would not be okay in my relationship. Porn is one thing, but someone on Facebook, especially when it’s not even sexual? Hell no. Porn is kind of like crushing on a celebrity to me, like there’s really no connection there and any kind of contact or relationship is nonexistent and far-fetched, so it’s pretty harmless. A person on Facebook, especially someone that’s a friend, definitely has a personal aspect to it, and crosses a line. It’s highly inappropriate.

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Yes. Yup. Absolutely

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If you feel that it's cheating, then that's what it is. You know what your boundaries are and it's okay to have them. Personally, I would have a huge problem with that and yes, if my husband did that, I would consider it a violation of our relationship.

Is it cheating?

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