Am I leading him on?

Question

I said to my boyfriend the other day that I would give him head, on previous occasions I'd told him I didn't like blowjobs and wouldn't
He asked me for head and I told him I didn't want to, he knows I'm scared il screw up and I just don't want to
He's told me Ive lead him on and won't talk to me
I didn't know what to do I feel really bad, am I in the wrong?

Answer

He's not talking to you... Over THIS? yikes, that's pretty childish... Communication is definitely key! Maybe have a discussion about ways to make you more comfortable while giving head so that you aren't as scared! Address your concerns in a more specific manner so that you can both come up with solutions (find why you feel this way)! You can't expect the first couple times you do it to be perfect! You're putting way too much pressure on yourself and that's never a good thing! It's something you can only improve on with experience unfortunately! I'm sure when you do feel ready, that you'll be great :) good luck!

Answer

Omg lol I said that to my ex and didn't want to give him head and when I say he blew up on me , OVER HEAD ! I was done lol

Answer

Yea you're both at fault. If you don't feel comfortable doing why tell him you will do it? I know you wouldn't like it if he led you on with other things. And he shouldn't pressure you. When you're ready you'll do it on your own. But also remember our men need their pleasure too just like we do ;)

Answer

You didn't lead him on. I'll give my boyfriend head and sometimes I just don't want to. You have the right to choose if you wanna do that or not. He's being a fucking baby about it.

Am I leading him on?

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