So on the 4th of this month I had sex with a guy I dated two years ago. I’m on birth control but I don’t take the last row of pills when my cycle is on I just start over bc those are placebos. My last cycle lasted from the 24th-1st. Which is strange bc my cycle are no longer than 4 days. But I’ve been off birth control since August of last year. I started back this December. So on the 2nd of this month I started a new pack. In the midst of us fucking, he goes soft so yk at that point we’re done. I asked him where did he n** bc I didn’t see it. He just looked. At this point I’m getting heated and I asked again & he said he didn’t at all. So today is the 11th and I started spotting at work. My cycle doesn’t come until 9 days. I’ve never spotted before my cycle actually starts. So yea I’m like confused? Is this normal ??? Also, I missed this Friday & Saturday’s pill bc they were in my car and I lost my keys.