My wife and I have been married for just over a year and are trying to get pregnant using <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a>. We're getting close to our first attempt/procedure. I feel weird that my family doesn't know we're doing it, but my wife doesn't want to tell anyone until we're pregnant.

I'm super close to my family and always open about things. I'm conflicted because I feel like it would be a shock to my family if I just come out one day and say "Surprise! I'm pregnant!" But I also feel like I shouldn't feel obligated to tell them <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a> is something we're doing because of we were a straight couple, we wouldn't be telling my family about us having sex! 🤦🏻‍♀️ I just don't know.......

For the record, my wife is a life-long, openly gay woman and I came out to my family just a couple years ago so some of this stuff still makes me nervous...