I normally am not the one making posts, but on the other end helping with advice but I guess at some point everyone needs advice and I'm that person right now. My boyfriend and I are kind of at a point where our intimacy has stopped. Before we were officially dating we were very intimate for almost 2 years, even the first few months after "becoming official" we were still intimate. I'm not talking about just sex, I'm meaning intimate as in, passionate kissing, flirting uncontrollably, cuddling, etc. Its all kind of hit a stop and I dont know what to do. Weve been bf/gf for almost a year now and everytime we try to be intimate, it's almost like I cant get turned on enough to make it enjoyable. Hes very turned on by me, hes not the issue in this, I am. I've never had this problem before with any other relationship. I don't know what's wrong or what to do about it. Weve tried having discussions about it and they never really go anywhere. What's hurting me the most is we are almost in the process of having a ring made.. I love him so much but I dont know what to do about the intimacy. I told him we need to hold off on the ring until we can figure this out because we both need intimacy in our relationship if a marriage is going to work. Anyways, any thoughts or suggestions for me?