How do you know you are ready for baby #2???

Alyssa

My first baby is going to ONE on the first! We want our babies close in age. We were kind of waiting on orders (we are military). But we cant live our lives waiting on the military ya know? I had a very traumatic 1st birth. I had a 4th degree tear & severe hemmorhage. Then my son spent 12 days in the NICU. I have processed everything now (I think).

I am just afraid of my next birth/pregnancy. So, I guess that is what holds me back.