My boyfriend has been a real jerk the past few months. He always has a smart ass comment to make. I’m having a surgery soon and he’s had the same surgery so I was asking him about it because I’m scared. He kept saying “you’ll find out when you have it done” for every question. I only asked a few questions and he was just being really rude and not supportive. I told him I was just scared and wanted to know a few things about it. He said “you’ll know when you have it done” again but real loud and slow. He’s like that with everything now and I’m just so sick of it.

I love him so so much but I’m tired of being with someone who can’t ever emotionally support me. I told him to never speak to me again and that I was done with him and don’t want to be with him anymore. He didn’t think I was serious and he just shrugged his shoulders. He tried calling me that night but I ignored it. That was three days ago. He’s called me a bunch of times and I let it go to voicemail. He leaves voicemails and he’s sobbing and apologizing and I feel so bad. I have never seen him like that. And our friends are saying he’s in real bad shape and I don’t know what to do. I’d love to be with the sweet man I started dating, but he wasn’t acting like that for months and he said nothing else was going on. He showed up at my house last night and my parents told him it wasn’t a good idea to see me and asked him to leave.

Do you think it would be a good idea to give him a second chance? I really want to be with him, I am just afraid of him being the way he was.