10DPO losing hope

dk

I know at 10 DPO It’s still early and I have a chance still. January I got my BFP at 14-16DPO then had a miscarriage. I was super hopeful I would be able conceive right away but I am feeling like my period is going to start and I’m just not feeling hopeful today I guess. Where is everyone else at today? Your DPO and mindset with how things are?