Ok I need some advice. My husbands longtime friend just went thru a bad divorce and is renting a room from us.

He has been at our place for a month and I shit you not, he has only showered 2 time. How do I know this? I’m a SAHM and I can tell when a shower has been turned on. This guy stinks, but not just bad I mean I gag when I’m around him. The room smells so bad that if I turn the heat on in the house it comes wafting out from the bottom of the door.

My husband smells it but said he’s a touchy subject to tell someone to take care of themselves and I should suck it up.

But I just can’t. It’s so damn nasty. My husband has already gotten mad that I want to tell him to shape up and freaken shower.

Would you say something?

Edited -

I also forgot to mention I have two kids under 2 in the house as well. So the hygiene thing is an issue because I don’t want them getting sick because then lets be honest I’ll end up sick and it’s nasty.

Thank you for the advice I think I’m going to try and leave him a care package and maybe have a sit down and see what we can do to help him thru this. Also, the divorce was a year ago so it’s not super fresh so that’s one of my main reasons for wanting to be like okay it’s been a year let’s get you back to you and let’s start with a shower.