We been together for 5 years, 2 married and we been trying to have a baby for 1 year..been thoru alot, and everytime he would make my doubts disappear by saying we are a family, I would never cheat on you or be disrespectful, we are trying to have a baby. For days I find out he was talking to other women who he met randomly outside, saying he is divorced. I start contacting them to see if something more happened, they all say just talking. Now he is sleeping on the couch and we haven’t talked for days. He keeps on telling me we will fix this but my heart and trust are broken.

Please help me with an advise. What would you do in my situation...

*Update

I told him i want a divorce, after long talks and seeing he is not taking any action in making things better.

Our situation is very different. We both muslims and I live with him, my family leaves in another country. They are supposed to come in 2 weeks to visit. Have to tell them, then I have to tell his family.

I have no friends, only his family here.

After divorce I have to leave the country and go back to my family.

Cannot believe he did this to me and my heart is aching. I was willing to take his word and give him a second chance even if I will never forget what he did, but seeing his behavior makes me run as far as I can.