How to be ok with husband finding other women attractive?

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My husband finds other women attractive, and i want to be ok with it. I’m afraid that he will leave me for a more attractive woman. I’m very insecure, but I’m trying to work on it. How do I reassure myself that it’s ok for him to find other women attractive and he won’t leave me?

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Do you find other men attractive? 
Probably so. 
Thinking other people are attractive is normal 
But if he’s telling you “wow that woman is so beautiful” that’s crossing a line. Or if he’s approaching women and flirting, that’s not okay. 
The only way to get okay with the thought is to build your own confidence. You have to think of more healthy things than obsessing over who he thinks is attractive. Also thinking someone is attractive DOESNT mean you think they’re MORE attractive than your partner or that you would leave your partner for that parson. 
You guys are married, you share a life together. Love and emotions. You’re friends (I would assume) 
Only a mf idiot would give up his wife for a woman he sees on the street.

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My husband does not go around telling me how attractive he thinks other women are. He may find other women attractive but he doesnt go around talking bout them. If your husband is doing that than you have a husband problem not a self confidence problem.

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He’s married not dead. It’s okay to find other people attractive. I’m sure my boyfriend finds a lot of women more attractive than me. But he comes home to me every night because he loves me and my craziness.

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He is a human being. I think therapy would help a lot. No shame in it at all.

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Initially I was going to say to work on your insecurities but I just read that your husband will compliment another woman’s appearance in front of you. That is not necessary at all. He needs to keep that to himself.

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Understanding that a man will do what he wants to do will help you cope with that. There will always be someone smarter than you, prettier than you, more creative than you, and more financially stable than you. FOR ALL OF US! And vice versus for him. The trick is knowing that there are other attractive people in the world, but having a man that ONLY wants you is golden. And unfortunately, you either have that kind of man, or you don’t. Either way, it has more to do with how he was raised, his level of self control, and his desire to live up to his promises.. ALL OF THESE FACTORS ARE OUT OF YOUR CONTROL! There is nothing that you can do to ensure that he won’t cheat, but knowing your value and worth will help YOU to understand that if he chooses to go that way instead, he missed out on a good thing.
Also, WE find our men attractive. Most “hot” girls will NOT find your man attractive the way that you do. Knowing that he CANT just have any and every girl that he wants or finds attractive helps as well. It is a FACT that most of the women that he finds attractive are out of his league.

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He has eyes and so do you. You can see when someone is attractive and not be attracted to them. As long as he doesn’t make comments to make you feel insecure about it I think it’s fine.

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Well I mean pretty much everyone finds multiple people attractive so just recognize that your husband is human? I see people I find attractive but that doesn’t mean I want any type of relationship with them. You can just appreciate someone’s looks.

How to be ok with husband finding other women attractive?

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