My baby father and his family are very rude and disrespectful towards me, My baby’s father has told me plenty of times he didn’t care about me or the baby and didn’t care if we died. He even said “you should’ve just got an abortion”. Now I cut the whole family off and i’m not speaking to them. I am not inviting them to events such as baby shower and gender reveal because he’s told me plenty of times he doesn’t want to be there and he doesn’t want to be around me & said if he sees me he will kick me down the steps . I plan on not having him or his family around the baby at all. Is that selfish? They’ve said hurtful things about me and my baby and I don’t trust them around.