My bf of 3 1/2 years who I’ve lived with for the past 2 years has a libido that decreases exponentially it seems. When we first started dating and living together we couldn’t take our hands off of each other but now it feels like I’m hounding him for sex when we haven’t done it in a month. It’s not that he’s not affectionate...he loves to cuddle, makes me breakfast in bed on the weekends, etc.... I just would prefer once a week sex not once a quarter. And here on valentines weekend we got a hotel out of town and had a fancy dinner yesterday but nothing intimate has happened. I’ve tried making advances and just get turned down. I know relationship wise I’ve got it good but I feel sexually frustrated 24/7. And masturbation just makes me feel so shameful like I’m doing it behind his back.