Hi there, I have a really (REALLY) complicated relationship with my new boyfriend but it doesn't end here. Let me tell you all.

Three years ago I was going out with a nice guy but we broke up after one and a half year. In fact, I broke up with him, but we stayed good friends until now.

While I was with him, I was attracted to another boy (even though I never cheated on him). And now I'm going out with that other boy. And here comes my problem.

My ex is now happy with his new gf, and I'm happy with my bf... But I think I could be happier with my ex.

The trouble is I don't want to ruin my friendship with my ex, and neither do I want to ruin his couple nor mine. But I feel that he isn't totally over it either, so I just don't know what to do. I'm just paralyzed thinking I might be a bitch. I don't know what you guys think ?

Ps: I'm sorry if there are some mistakes in here as I'm not a native English speaker :/