So I did my boyfriends laundry and when he came home, he began to help me fold his clothes. Some of my clothes were mixed in and he threw a thong over at me. I told him that it wasn’t my thong and he insisted that it must be. I felt myself getting angry but kept it in and gave him the benefit of the doubt until I realized his sisters initials were on them. So I assumed it just have just gotten into his laundry by mistake when he did it at his moms house.

The next day, I went into his drawer to grab something of mine, and found those same panties and immediately was weirded out but was still giving him the benefit of the doubt because he’s never given me a reason not to. So I asked him that night “hey were you planning on giving your sister that underwear back” and he said something along the lines of “no I’d rather not think about my sisters parties” so I proceeded to ask why they were in his drawer and immediately I felt like he got sort of defensive and he said oh well you can throw them out or give them to her if you want. So I said well if you weren’t planning on giving them back then why didn’t you throw them out.. that’s kinda weird. And he goes “make it weird if you’re want to then”

We haven’t been fighting or anything I kinda just let is slide but I literally cant get it off my mind. Why the heck would he keep them in his drawer if he wasn’t even planning on giving them back? I can’t help but to feel weirded out and I really do want to give him to benefit of the doubt. Someone help me, it’s also a week before my period so if I’m being irrational please tell me but I’m driving myself nuts