Pregnant... Now what?

Question

Okay so for the last twelve months my husband and I have been engaging in somewhat 'kinky' sex. 
Anal, bondage, force, toys, double penetration, etc etc... Basically I was his little 'cum slut'... We'd get drunk  and go crazy. 
I've recently found out I'm pregnant and I'm a little concerned this sex with stop... I won't be considered his 'little slut' and we will both be left in satisfied..  Or he'd look at me in a different light.... 
I've mentioned it to him, but he thinks it'll be fine... However, ever since I found out I was pregnant a week ago, we haven't had sex... He's been tired...
We are so excited for this baby, I guess I'm just concerned that sexually... Things will take a down turn. That worries me and also makes me feel a little uneasy... I don't think he'd go elsewhere but I don't think he'll be getting everything what he wants (and I want) from me now... Any ideas or advice?

Answer

I think after the newness of the pregnancy. ..the initial shock...wears off you will both feel better having sex... light bondage and double pen would probably be ok... I wouldn't go with force while pregnant, anal will be ok...until the hemorrhoids hit...just tone it down a little...don't have to go completely missionary

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Ask your doc if there are any limitation on sex. Most like there aren't but just see what they say. You don't have to tell them about the kinky part if you're embarrassed.

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I see it like this...its only a few months. Being a parent is doing what's best for your baby, and if those things become painful you need to do what's best for baby. You both need to realize it's only a temporary thing, and that you can be crazy kinky again when its a little easier. There is more to life then sex, sometimes in life we have to put things aside, doesn't mean forever.

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I feel the exact same way.. He doesn't want to do our normal kinky sex now that I'm pregnant (15 weeks) and I'm worried that our sex lives will change.. This WAS a planed pregnancy but I still feel a little nervous :( I already miss being his little slut... 
But anyway, good luck to you, I hope everything works out and you both go back to your normal sex lives before you know it. (For both of us!)

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