Well I’m 22 weeks pregnant I deal with our son al day everyday and I’m high risk In my pregnancy and I can feel myself weighing down now my back is hurting a lot more and I feel like I’m out of breath a lot and our son is literally 13 months and rn since I’m having a girl I know he senses it because he’s being more needy and wanting me to carry him . I told my husband like I know you work and I never really like to ask for your help and all but I really am going to need your help with him . I don’t give my husband shit when he wants to go and smoke and stuff I give him the privilege and his space I get it you get frustrated from work and you stress but I do too and I can’t have time for myself and sometimes I just feel like I want to break down and cry because I don’t even get time with my husband or get a break for myself. Anyways I’m tried of constantly asking him to help and when my son cry’s he carry’s him for like 5 min and then puts him down and is like I’m not going to carry you and then I feel like ugh fuck a break I’ll just take care of him if it really bothers you that bad to just help me . I just need advice