I accidentally found out he bought the ring 😰

Has anything like this happened to you before?

My boyfriend and I are extremely open with each other and because of that, I knew he would be buying the engagement ring soon. I didn’t know exactly when but he gave me a general idea! Well, he and his cousin talk a lot through Facebook messenger because they have a lot in common, and his cousin just bought the ring for his girlfriend. Our Facebook accounts are logged into both of our phones and the messenger app, so if I go back and forth through our accounts, I’ll get notifications for both. I didn’t realize it was logged onto my boyfriends and so I clicked the message from his cousin thinking it was towards me (I didn’t think it through this was like 5 seconds lol). I read the message my boyfriend sent him and he said he bought the ring and plans to propose in the next Few months 😱

Again, it didn’t ruin anything for me because I already knew this, but I feel so guilty and bad that I saw it. I’m planning on feeling him in person today that I accidentally saw it but oh my goodness, it’s just crazy because now I know he HAS IT.

ALSO

I saw an email notification on his phone yesterday that said the ring had shipped!! Help me I’m nervous! Haha.

Anyway, has anything like this happened to you? How do you deal with nerves? How do you know when to begin wedding planning? LOL. Thanks y’all.

Also please be kind. This is my relationship and these are our boundaries. I understand yours and your views on it may be different.