Is this Toxic, Manipulative behavior?

One day my bf told me that “ all the girls want him, but he chose me”

additionally, we were in the car and i wanted to play a song and he said “ no this is my car, i just bought you dinner so i should have a say in the playlist”

if someone else knows about toxic behavior, can you please let me know?😭 I’m really considering leaving asap if that’s the case and i’m trying to catch early signs