Would you marry somebody that cheated on you in the past ?

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Me and my bf are suppose to get married but Im having second thoughts and think he's gonna cheat on me again...! Should I marry him or just move on with my life

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People make mistakes and people who have cheated in the past do not always cheat in the future. However, if you are having second thoughts because you are still having trust issues, you are not ready to be married to him. So my best advice would be to postpone the wedding. Work on your trust issues for you and work on building a stronger relationship with your fiancé. Wait to marry until you can fully trust. And if you can't move passed what he did in the past, then he isn't the right one for you. It's better to work out issues or cut ties before getting married. Marriage is sacred and the last thing you want to do is start a marriage with pre existing issues as severe as lack of trust.

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I would probably push back the wedding until I felt like things were better. Trust would be hard to earn back not impossible

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If what he did is always gonna be in the back of your head then you shouldn't marry him cause you shouldn't have to worry if your husband is gonna cheat on you again,i know for a fact i wouldn't marry a man who's cheated on me ,you need peace of mind i hope everything goes good for you ,good luck

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I personally wouldn't

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I wouldn't be able to. I would not ever be able to trust that person fully no matter how I tried and if there is any mistrust in a relationship it always fails. So I'd rather save myself the heartache and wasted years with them and move on.

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If you are having second thoughts then no. 
I am with my OH who cheated with me, and it just takes alot of time for that trust to come back. Been 2 years now. We are on our second child together and he has worked very hard to get that trust back and to show us he is there for our family. He knows that if he did it again he wouldn't get a second chance again. I made that very clear!

Don't rush into getting married just yet. Postpone it for awhile. To me if I were getting married I would want to just feel completely happy. But having a single doubt would ruin the day for me.

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Nope. I wouldn't be able to.

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I would not.

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I wouldn't. 
Maybe because every time I look at his eyes, I would think he had been with someone else and this kills the relationship. You would constantly be fighting of trust. 😑
If you choose to ignore that part and can handle the risk, go with it.

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Really depends on you.. If that person made a mistake & does everything in their power to make it right & work on the two of you then that's something you should keep in mind. Also, speak on how you're feeling to him.. But if he's done it more than once & it's been recent I'd say maybe he's not the one.. I'm not justifying cheating or saying no don't marry him.. But emotionally you have to be detached from a person & truly not be IN love with them to lay with another person.. To give yourself to another.. But everyone's situations are different & people are weak sometimes at points in their life's when times are hard.. If you've been together a while you have history. Honestly, he should be doing everything in his power to make you feel secure if he truly is dedicated to your relationship.

Would you marry somebody that cheated on you in the past ?

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