FTM help

I am going to be a first time mom in 5 weeks. (I do not know the gender due to cultural reasons) I am LOSTTT on what to purchase I do not have a single thing for baby and it’s giving me anxiety.

My husband is against baby sleeping with us due to the way I sleep, I was hoping to sleep with baby in a generic docATot.

All I know is I need to buy a car seat, diaper bag, stroller, bassinet, pampers, wipes, clothes, swaddles/receiving blankets, bottles, hygiene stuff/ointments.

Feel free to comment what I left out