Update!

This is our conversation after I made this post. I tried to be mature as possible. He has her 3 weekends, 1st, 3rd and 4th. I get her 2nd and any other. I have her full time, all week and then my weekend. I’m sole and primary custodian. I’ll be honest, I’m no longer comfortable with her being around my child if she’s going to behave this way, but I don’t want to overstep my daughters boundaries. She just turned 4 Monday.

Also: this is in no way shape or form an attempt to bash my child’s father or his new partner. I just really need advice because I’m at a loss of what to do.

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I need advice:

Imagine your coparenting relationship with your child’s father is amazing but then he gets remarried and then blocks you. His new partner tells you in order for you to have contact with your child’s parent that it must be through her. They lie to you numerous times over text & phone call telling you that his phone is off, just for his family to tell you that is a lie and they give you proof that it is. When you text them to discuss your child starting a sport this summer, they show no interest and when you mention that you & them need to follow the court order and you need to be discussing this with her father, you’re told to “you need to chill out” and are told “we aren’t talking to you unless it’s an emergency or for pick up and drop off”. This has been happening for over a year now. How do you respond or react? Because my heart is hurting for my baby girl because her relationship with her father is so strained because of this woman and I’ve tried so hard to coparent and be nice but seeing my baby girl cry because she can’t even call her dad, it breaks my heart.