Is he not my boyfriend?

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I met my boyfriend online a few months ago. I won't lie...the man checks in, caters to me, and fulfills my every need. Today I decided to catfish him. Mind u I allowed him to move in my place 2 months ago. He is telling this girl ( I made up) he is single...lives with a married couple so he can't have company...that me and him are just friends with benefits and he plans to move out in May. How do I confront this man??

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You have zero trust. Kick him out and start over with someone you do trust.

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You shouldn’t have catfished him without a backup plan on what you’re actually going to do. You shouldn’t have catfished him in general and should have just left. This entire situation was completely avoidable.

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By admitting that you didn’t trust him, that you were crazy and immature enough to catfish him and catch him, and that you couldn’t decide to just talk to him, so you played a stupid game and won a stupid prize. Next time, just dump him and tell him you’re kicking him out because you don’t trust him.

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You don’t confront him, you kick him out. Like the comments are saying though, if you get to the point where you feel like you need to catfish him to find out the truth, it’s not a healthy relationship .

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In my state he has lived at your address long enough to establish residency.  So while kicking him out signs like a fantastic idea, it's not that easy.  You can ask him to leave or tell him he has to leave.  But if he doesn't want to leave and knows the law, you'll have to serve him with an eviction notice.  In my area that costs approximately 300$. 
What we learned? Don't move strangers into your home.  What if he would have been a creepy killer?

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The fact that you went through all the trouble of cat fishing him just proved that you didn’t trust him. You can’t have a good relationship without trust in the first place.
Just leave, you should have the moment you even *considered* cat fishing him in the first place. No one in a healthy relationship ever does that.

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He fulfills your every need, but you decided to catfish him??? 🤔

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Just tell him it's over. No need to go into details. He doesn't really deserve an explanation anyways.

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You don’t need to confront him ,but if you do you could say my intuition is telling me you not trustworthy and that’s it . 
And ask him to move out .you probably felt that something wasn’t right that you chose to catfish him ,not a good idea but hey now you now his intentions.

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I'd be putting his stuff out front and saying buh bye.

Is he not my boyfriend?

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