Do you tell your bff you hate her bf ?

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My best friend has a worthless bf . And no matter what any one tries to tell her were wrong and she defends him . hes mr. Perfect In her eyes. They been together 6 months and got engaged after like a month of being together. Never lived by themselves together . they live with 4 other roommates that are all boys. Her bf says he doesnt trust his rommates but its clear he doesnt trust her. They plan to get married I believe the end of this year or next year. What would you do.?

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You said for yourself she doesn’t listen to y’all and constantly defends him. So saying anything else won’t do much but maybe start causing some sort of resentment on her side to y’all. This is a lesson she’s gonna have to learn for herself it sounds like 🤷🏻‍♀️

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I hated my best friends ex, She knew I didn’t like his lying cheating ass. He would cheat and cheat and verbally abuse her and she would keep running back to him. I told her how I felt but I never pushed her because she is a adult and can make her own decisions no matter how stupid her decisions were.

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Don't worry once they get married I'll make sure that she ditches all her friends that don't love him and just all of her friends🤷🙄

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I LOVE my best friend, we’ve been friends since we were 13 years old. I loathe her fiancé. He’s my exes friend and they met because of my ex and I. He is controlling, manipulative, rude, tracks her phone, doubts her, doesn’t defend her when his family does shitty stuff to her.
But she chooses him and I told her I will back whatever decision she makes out of respect for her but only for that reason. Not because I agree with their being together. I’m honest with her about how I feel about him but I also won’t bring it up unless she asks directly because she already knows and doesn’t need to hear it more than she already does from other people.

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I’d be honest with her, but let her learn on her own. My friend had to learn that her ex was trash on her own even though she got her feelings hurt by him a lot.

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I think there's nothing wrong with telling her what you think of him, but after that then I'd leave it alone. She's going to have to find out on her own.

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Absolutely. To me being a friend means your honest, even if they get mad at you. I’ll tell you ya mans shit without hesitation.

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Id tell her but in the end its her choice.

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I would be polite but I wouldn't hide that I didn't like him.

Do you tell your bff you hate her bf ?

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