So for the longest time my " boyfriend " and I have called each other wife/husband because when have been together for so long. And we had a marriage ceremony about 3 years ago. We had a binding of the souls thing. And I took that as our marriage. But a few days ago he started calling me his feoncè which keep in mind he hasn't called me that in 3 years so it kind hurt my feelings we have a kid together and I was telling one of my friends yah we are married and have a kid and he butts in saying we are engaged and have a kid together. Yes I know we haven't had a court thing to legally be married but idk I guess I was just excited for so long now I am just sad. And feel like shit