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How can you have a healthy relationship ? What are some ways that you and your S/O can do to have a better bond and be happy ?

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Therapy (individual and couples) - you do not need “problems” to speak openly in front of a licensed professional.
Date nights. Regular sex where each person is pleased. Love languages are understood and cared for.

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Communication is key.

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I think being secure as individuals helps a lot in relationships. Like my ex NEEDED to know where I was and what I was doing and spend so much time together it became unbearable but my husband and I have our own friends and own hobbies and we spend time apart but can come together too. That gives us balance.

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I would recommend reading “The 5 Love Languages”. That in itself does wonders. But being completely transparent with one another, always having open communication constantly with how you feel so that things don’t build up over time. My boyfriend and I have sat down with a couple (our mentors) who have went through multiple therapy sessions themselves giving us advice because they have the seed and have been where we are. Finding someone like that, that you trust and can both be open to is also good when you can’t come to an agreement on something. Seeking outside perspective from both the male and female view. We also have “Our Day” once a week. No distractions from the outside world, just us two. That was advice given to me from my mentors.

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We are always willing to listen and calmly try to understand each other. 
We forgive each other 
We don't tend to get hung up about small stuff
We are always on each others side, even if we are having a difficult moment.
We communicate about everything. About sex, about the relationship, about how we are feeling, about what we want in life, about our differences, about thoughts & values. About mundane stuff like shoe size and cereal and how good those quesadillas we made were. 
We celebrate each other every day and wish each other the best every day. 
It's actually kind of a good mix of personalities. We are both very nice to other people and give people the benefit of the doubt, we both are open and non-judgmental and hate arguing. We can actually avoid arguing, but I think that's because our personalities mesh like that. At least so far. Some conversations hurt, but we are never mean. 
Take what you will from this if you find anything of value applicable to your situation- and also, read up on healthy relationships!

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You first need to make sure what attachment style each of you are- trust me, just google attachment styles and read about them- then you’ll figure out what you’ll need to do.

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