Anxiety around men *trigger warning*

Does anyone else get nervous and anxiety around men? I was sexually abused when I was 8 and I get really nervous around guys and always have. The only guys I trust is my husband which took a very long time and my dad before he died. I go to therapy but it never helped and I still am this way. Has anyone else been through this and how did you ever get over this anxiety if you did? Thanks so much