NEED OPINIONS

i just found out at my 20 week scan that my babygirl has cystic hygroma which is a fluid-filled sac that results from a blockage in the lymphatic system in her neck . but on top of that has Hydrops fetalis which is swelling of the fetus and some fluid around the lungs. i didn’t get any genetic testing done until just now because i didn’t have a worry until this came up... so i am waiting for results.. i got told it’s 60% a chromosome abnormality and to highly suggest terminating my pregnancy. I just really would like to know if someone has gone through this or has an opinion... i guess when they have hydrops it 50% chance gives you a mirror syndrome and you can develop HIGH blood pressure and seizures even... i am so in shock and just needing some support.. anyone heard of this before?? i keep feeling like continuing anyways but they say that my life can be in danger so i’m just so all over the place.. they said since it’s a girl it might be turners syndrome?? and if it has hydrops with the turners they think it won’t survive right after birth??