2 year old acting out after baby is born

Elizabeth

Just gave birth to my 2nd child 10 days ago and my 25 month old daughter has been acting out and having more tantrums and occasionally hitting when she gets frustrated. My own mother has come down to help out and we both take time playing with her and giving her attention and love, but when she doesn't get her way she gets extremely angry and takes her forever to calm down. She loves on her little brother and gives him kisses and wants to hold him, but she doesn't like me holding him or feeding him sometimes. I understand it's a big change for her having her new brother around, but I was wondering if anyone had any tips on how to help her along with this big change. I'd really appreciate some advice, thanks!!