Why Can’t I be Happy?

Question

I’m pretty sure I just broke up with my fiancé tonight. He wanted to “take a break from me” because I was hurt he was blocking me as a way to get what he wanted. He tells me I should be more submissive and listen to him more. I can’t help but think it’s true. 
A year ago I was with my ex, trying to get back together with him. Then he found out the girl he dated two months after me was pregnant. This man was my first love and he got another woman pregnant. 
I feel so angry, I just want a family. A loving husband. Children. 
Why can’t I be happy

Answer

My boyfriend of 6 years cheated on me last week, chose her over me, and completely got rid of everything I ever got him men are fucking pigs and dont deserve loving women like us. He mentally, and verbally abused me and I didnt realize until tonight while talking with my friend and seeing how her and her bf interact with each other

Answer

Be more submissive? Fuck that. You will find someone who will respect you for who you are and love your strength not ask you to deny it. What you need to do is love and respect yourself. You wanted to go back with the one that cheated and now you want to go back to the one that is trying to control you with manipulating behaviour, like blocking you to get what he needs. You say you love him but who loves you? Surely neither of them I can tell you as much. You wont find real love until you can respect yourself and guys will keep taking advantage of it.

Answer

Man fuck that. More submissive and listen to him? No, you should talk like grown adults and understand you're both equals and have the ability to make your own decisions without being manipulated or made to feel bad about them.

Answer

Sadly men are no longer men. They want to be controlling or use guilt and manipulation to get what they want. They resort to mind games and in the end it’s them getting their way or being right like a child. Or throw tantrums. They do the minimal. And cheat. Whether you are dating or married or pregnant or have kids. Sadly they don’t see kids as a form of commitment. And marriage is like a death sentence and avoid it and string you along for years giving you false hope. They either choose their friends or video games or their family over you or their baby mama drama that creates hell for you or a mother in law from hell that resents you for taking her “husband” and emotional support away and sees you as the home wrecker. Honestly you are better off alone than in bad company and deserve better. So much crap women have to tolerate and sacrifice for a relationship.

Answer

Take the time to find YOU and be happy with YOU. You dont need to submit to a man or do what he says. You are your own person. 
You also probably should not jump from one relationship to another. You would be overlooking red flags. No judgement here, I promise. But you are with your ex and you broke up and are engaged within a year. 
You will find a good man and you WILL be happy and have kids. There is still time. You can do this. Don't take the fiancee back if he wants to be a toolbag.

Why Can’t I be Happy?

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