It’s ok if babies are exposed, because they aren’t getting sick.

The title says it all. I am so so over people telling me this when they ask to come over and see my babies. I have two littles, a 4 month and an 18 month old and my in-laws are constantly trying to come over. When I say no they tell me my children won’t get sick. I don’t even want people who have a cold, never mind could potentially be carrying it to visit my babies. I live in NY and there’s so many cases here. Then I try to explain maybe they won’t get sick, but they can become carriers and pass it to someone, and they are like well if you don’t bring them out, they can’t pass it. I am not allowing visitors, or bringing my kids anywhere. Why is it so hard for people to just stay home for a little bit???