I want my partner to feel them move!!

Tifani • A&E 👩🏼‍🦲👩🏼‍🦲first time parent, non-binary and proud, 🤰🏽💁🏼‍♂️

Has anyone been able to get their babies to move on command? I want my partner to feel them move but as soon as he is there and hand in place they get like stage fright or something

I’ve tried water-room temperature and food and cold chocolate milk