I’m not sure if she is even related to me, because there is very little evidence for me to go off of. It’s confusing. But would you defend your dad if you saw people bad mouthing him?

So my dad had me when he was 41, and at age 15 I found out that I have a half sister. I am 23 now, and she is 47. I didn’t really care because my dad never talked to me about it, and I didn’t see a point in talking to him about it. We have a good relationship, and I love my dad.

Well this other lady has two daughters that are about my age, and I don’t see any resemblance of my dad to any of them, so it’s weird to me, but the girls started adding my brothers on Facebook and they asked, who they were and they would say “I’m your niece!” Well my brother asked that they take a DNA test, and they started asking why? And saying it’s weird that he wants a test..

Well none of them have ever met my Dad including his “daughter” from what I know, her adoptive dad, went to school with my dad, and they were both involved in another woman, which caused beef between them in high school, and even now... My dad is definitely a woman’s man, and very handsome, so I can understand why that guy didn’t like my dad, that and because of this “other woman”

My dad was competing for the Olympics when he was in his younger years, and traveling Italy. He did however send letters to this lady who is his “daughter” and would send pictures and everything to keep in touch, and tried. his ex wife, said that her mom use to call my dad at the house and my dad would send her money or whatever.

Mind you, her adoptive dad and her mom are still together. Nobody can really be sure who the dad is because, there was never a DNA test. We were not even born until this woman was in her early 20s. My dad is now retired from the Air Force, and he hasn’t lived in NY since he was in his teens.

I feel more defensive of my dad because he doesn’t have much of any family other then us kids. He’s always been a great dad to us. Ski trips, horses, and pigs for 4-H. Would buy us our winter sport equipment, take us on vacations ect, and he has always protected from stuff, and I think one reason he didn’t talk about this drama is because he didn’t want us to hear people talk shit about him, or for us to deal with all the bullshit.

Well he doesn’t have anything to do with that girl, or her family because supposedly when he tried, her adoptive dad told my dad to “say away or you’ll be sorry” my dad in the last few years deleted his “daughter” off Facebook and he doesn’t even really care anymore, because of how they push him away. He said as far as he’s concerned he has four kid, and he doesn’t give a shit about anything else.

Today his “daughter” posted a political post on Facebook and my brother commented on it, just stating his view points and vis versa, and nobody was getting nasty or anything, until her adoptive dad commented “he is just as dumb as his dad” and these girls who are supposedly my nieces, used the laughing emoji and one said “I was just about to say that” but they have NEVER met my dad. I had a good relationship with them so far, since they added me on Facebook and I have always been really nice, but then once I seen those comments I deleted every single one of them. “My sister and two nieces “

So I messaged him and my “sister’s” mom to let her know what was going on, since before we would all talk and keep in touch... I don’t know if I should have just said nothing, but I felt like I had to stick up for my dad, as he’s not even aware of this going on, and I saw the rude comments towards him. He hasn’t seen these people in like 40+ years.. Would you stick up for your dad like I did?